I understand well that men and woman are very different creatures especially when it comes to dealing with emotions, problems, and almost everything. I've been trying to understand the how the male works here lately so I guess this post is for the fellas. Why is it that guys only tell their "female friends" selective things? Or why is she always the last to find out about something that's going on? And how come when guys deal with emotions they want to keep it all bottled up inside? I admit I bottle up a lot of my feelings but every now and again I'll talk to someone about what I'm going through. Communication is very helpful in life so use it! I just get really frustrated when I have to do brain surgery on a guy just to get some information out of him. So if you're a guy reading this please get back with me because I just want to know.
3 comments:
I entirely understand where you're coming from here. My boyfriend is exactly the way you described. Every once in a while he'll open up voluntarily, the rest of the time, I feel like I have to hire a PI to find out what he's thinking. Good luck and if you actually find anything out, let me know!
~Amy
That post made me laugh! Most guys are like that, but not all guys are! My boyfriend is often very open with his emotions to me, however, that is only one guy. Most guys, we will never understand, and guys often think we girls are more confusing...Good luck finding some answers!
you make it sound like it's a big mystery. it's just the way we are. if we don't tell you something, nine times out of ten, we don't think it's important enough to say, or we just don't think of it.
I personally don't talk about emotions much because a. there isn't any reason to, and b. they are private.
you aren't going to get guys, any more than guys "get" girls. anyone who tells you they completely understand the opposite sex is either a liar or a fool.
we are literaly wired different.
Post a Comment